Comments on: Would You Have Handled It Differently If You Were In My Shoes?

By: juliana

juliana — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 03:40:21 +0000

@ chelle

wen ngarud, nalaing kunwari ngem mas nalaing nga agkopya.

thanks sa concern.

By: chelle

chelle — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 09:16:42 +0000

Manang, pasensya kan ta tatta ak lang nga ag-comment ditoy post mo… Nagtungtong kami gamen kenni Manang Lisa, ket imbaga na diay tungkol daytoy… Ammom Manang, idi kanayonnak met ket nga agpasyar diay blog ni …. . Saludo ak pay ngarud kanya na ta naglaing… Injak ammo agkopkopya met gayam… Pero Manang ammom, saludo ak kenyam diay inaramid mo…
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By: Cee

Cee — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 09:59:31 +0000

Hi!
If i were in your shoes, i would have dealt with this matter in a different way. I would have been without reserve from the very start. My tone on an initial post will not be as subdued as yours on “Sleep Deprived ….” I would not be as calm as you have been (even) on the succeeding entries re:this issue.

Now regarding the angry comments that you said you have been receiving, there were three (3) lines which (i noticed) could have triggered them. (1)”I might spill the beans.” (2)”Care to know who?” (3)”If you want the link to the other victim’s blog, i’ll be happy to share it.”

However, i do not believe you have anything to explain to them — then and now. I realize how overwhelming these comments can be but just bear in mind that you did nothing wrong in the first place. Ikaw nga itong biktima eh!

You claimed to be furious yet your fury was never felt on your posts. You were very successful in trying to think objectively and your better judgment (to wait for the resolution) prevailed instead of revealing who this thief is.

Ang totoo eh naging mabait ka pa nga at may konsiderasyon. Kahit ngayon pati yung nagpadala sa’yo ng galit na komento eh parang kinokonsidera mo pa rin ang damdamin sa ginawa mong pagpapaliwanag (That all they needed to do was ask, etc.).

They do not deserve it Juliana. Let them be and write what you want to. This is your lair after all! Stop being upset

By: Rocks

Rocks — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 06:26:51 +0000

you handled it very nicely sis if ako di ko alam gagawin ko. you are still kind thinking about her pa nga inspite of what she did.

By: Mira

Mira — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 02:48:43 +0000

Hi Juliana, I guess aside from reporting the crime to the affiliates and Google, another thing that I would have done was to name the culprit directly in my post with a snapshot of her site. That way nobody would have been left hanging and guessing. But nevertheless you handled the situation as professional as you could at that time, and I hope she learned her lesson well.

By: Rolly

Rolly — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 19:47:45 +0000

How sad. But it happened to me as well. I don't know why there are some people that is narrow minded and never look back if they hurt somebody. Like for example, I am addicted to EC dropping but it seems that this certain blogger (you can read it in my post) is fuming mad about my drops without leaving comments. The same thing here. Stealing your post and posted in their blog. What a shame really. Well, thanks for the time here. Joro Livelihood Joro, The New Beginning Absolutely Joro The World Of Joro The Tale Of A Bukidnon Lad Baconchezjoro Multiply

By: juliana

juliana — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 03:51:56 +0000

@ Tuks

maulan pa din, walang patawad.

Oo nga, parang nag sprout ulit na mushroom.

By: juliana

juliana — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 03:50:22 +0000

@ Lira

yes, indeed. thanks for sharing your thoughts, Lira.

By: juliana

juliana — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 03:49:12 +0000

@ Lisa

it’s okay Manang, don’t worry about it. Oo nga, sinabi mo pa. But nalaing man wenno saan ti agsurat, awan ti babain na nga talaga.

By: juliana

juliana — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 03:47:05 +0000

@ Concerned blogger

Thanks for dropping by and for the info, and yes I’m aware about it. But you know what, I really have no business and don’t really care what she does for as long as she does not cross my line.